[UPDATE 4-9-12]
Well, it's been nearly 6 months since Barry';s cancer was debunked. Mom even found out through Doctors that he was lying. SHE STILL BELIEVES HIM!!!! In the face of even of the most damning evidence (or lack thereof), from Doctors, the lack of any records at a cancer treatment facility, Blood Tests showing absolutely no sign of ever having cancer (or) treatment, AND the person that really had prostate cancer telling her the whole story (date for Date), a nurse (neighbor) telling her she was questioning Barry's story, AND, His own daughter providing 5 males that had the treatment he was supposed to have, and none of them have hair growing on their abdomens where the radiation was focused and Barry is furry there! It's one excuse after another.
[ORIGINAL]
Well, My Mother FINALLY started asking questions to the right people. I love it. Barry's elaborate Web of Lies is unraveling. Mom is finally starting to see it. One step at a time, but she's going to finally realize that Barry is a Liar Deluxe that lives in a Dream World.
OK, how did it happen you ask? Two Months ago Mom went to Dr. G*** who happens to be a wonderful Dr. That started seeing Barry for Free many many many moons ago. The Good Dr. was instrumental in getting Barry Disability and Medicare, but he admits he got sucked in to Barry's Web of Lies too, for a short time.
But I digress....Mom asked the Dr. about Barry's cancer and he looked dumbfounded and hurt at the same moment that Barry had not discussed it with him, after all he has done for him. The Dr. told Mom, I'll get to the bottom of this. At that visit he also said he had not seen Barry for several months when Mom ask the Dr. when he last saw Barry. [Barry had been supposedly seeing him weekly.] The Dr. got to see him finally and ordered some clandestine tests for Barry. They were to diagnose an issue he was having, but also to check, without the patient's knowledge, certain area's for having had cancer treatment or cancer.
I knew what the Dr. was testing for when Barry comes home and complains about the number of vials and bottles of blood they took from him. Somehow I successfully got him to go to the Dr. and get the Dr. and Mom to realize what was really going on.
Mom had to go to Dr. G*** today because she's sick from Barry coughing all over the place without covering his mouth. She got a bad case of laryngitis from it. While she was talking to him she asked about Barry's cancer. The Dr. just said, "I can find no sign that Barry has, now or in the past, had cancer. I also cannot find any records anywhere of him ever being treated for cancer. I have no idea why Barry would say anything like that." Mom went further asking him about all the other stuff (the "tattooed grid' on his side and the fine cut just below it, the reactions to radiation, etc).The Dr. explained everything to her including the length of treatment, which Barry was stating was lasting WAY LONGER than normal. In the end, Mom discovered it was an elaborate Hoax to get attention.
Then his other lies started to unravel.
Unfortunately when she got home, she started attacking Barry and I had to get her to the side and tell her that she was in Police mode now, gathering evidence. She should not divulge to the suspect what she knows. That she should never reveal to him what she knows, especially that the Cancer was a Hoax, until she enters Judge and Jury stage. She got the message. Thank God.
Then Barry started saying "You attack me like this every time I leave you alone with him." Mom told him, she had not seen me since early in the morning because I had my own Dr.s Appointments. It left Barry real-ling for excuses. Later he was outside smoking and I heard her saying to Barry "Just be quiet. YOU are lying to me. Why don't you just stop it, and tell the truth for once?"
I hope she sees, I think she does, that Barry's "Friends" T***&B*** were lying for him too. See next post "Liar's Lair."
I still have to deal with her attacks on me, but I deal with it by just saying something like 'What, you just found out that Barry is a Liar and you are taking your frustrations out on me now?!" I get a couple of excuses and a few of my own raised words in and she finally sees what she is doing and calms down.
By the way, the Dr. All But Ordered Her to get him out of her house. He is afraid that he is going to hurt one of us. He even said, that because of some new state law he can't do anything about the guns. That he felt the way he does because of the things Barry tells him. I feel sorry for the Man. He want's to help, but his hands are tied till my Mother finally say's "Please help me." or "Please help my son." In conversations with Mom after a heated argument where Barry gets in between us saying something like "I don't want you to hurt her." I remind her by asking her, who hit you? Why didn't you do something about it then?" her only response is, "It was Barry and I don't know why I didn't do something then." I usually ask her, "so why don't you do something now?" I never get a response. But Now, I believe she's on the right track.
Well, it's been nearly 6 months since Barry';s cancer was debunked. Mom even found out through Doctors that he was lying. SHE STILL BELIEVES HIM!!!! In the face of even of the most damning evidence (or lack thereof), from Doctors, the lack of any records at a cancer treatment facility, Blood Tests showing absolutely no sign of ever having cancer (or) treatment, AND the person that really had prostate cancer telling her the whole story (date for Date), a nurse (neighbor) telling her she was questioning Barry's story, AND, His own daughter providing 5 males that had the treatment he was supposed to have, and none of them have hair growing on their abdomens where the radiation was focused and Barry is furry there! It's one excuse after another.
[ORIGINAL]
Well, My Mother FINALLY started asking questions to the right people. I love it. Barry's elaborate Web of Lies is unraveling. Mom is finally starting to see it. One step at a time, but she's going to finally realize that Barry is a Liar Deluxe that lives in a Dream World.
OK, how did it happen you ask? Two Months ago Mom went to Dr. G*** who happens to be a wonderful Dr. That started seeing Barry for Free many many many moons ago. The Good Dr. was instrumental in getting Barry Disability and Medicare, but he admits he got sucked in to Barry's Web of Lies too, for a short time.
But I digress....Mom asked the Dr. about Barry's cancer and he looked dumbfounded and hurt at the same moment that Barry had not discussed it with him, after all he has done for him. The Dr. told Mom, I'll get to the bottom of this. At that visit he also said he had not seen Barry for several months when Mom ask the Dr. when he last saw Barry. [Barry had been supposedly seeing him weekly.] The Dr. got to see him finally and ordered some clandestine tests for Barry. They were to diagnose an issue he was having, but also to check, without the patient's knowledge, certain area's for having had cancer treatment or cancer.
I knew what the Dr. was testing for when Barry comes home and complains about the number of vials and bottles of blood they took from him. Somehow I successfully got him to go to the Dr. and get the Dr. and Mom to realize what was really going on.
Mom had to go to Dr. G*** today because she's sick from Barry coughing all over the place without covering his mouth. She got a bad case of laryngitis from it. While she was talking to him she asked about Barry's cancer. The Dr. just said, "I can find no sign that Barry has, now or in the past, had cancer. I also cannot find any records anywhere of him ever being treated for cancer. I have no idea why Barry would say anything like that." Mom went further asking him about all the other stuff (the "tattooed grid' on his side and the fine cut just below it, the reactions to radiation, etc).The Dr. explained everything to her including the length of treatment, which Barry was stating was lasting WAY LONGER than normal. In the end, Mom discovered it was an elaborate Hoax to get attention.
Then his other lies started to unravel.
Unfortunately when she got home, she started attacking Barry and I had to get her to the side and tell her that she was in Police mode now, gathering evidence. She should not divulge to the suspect what she knows. That she should never reveal to him what she knows, especially that the Cancer was a Hoax, until she enters Judge and Jury stage. She got the message. Thank God.
Then Barry started saying "You attack me like this every time I leave you alone with him." Mom told him, she had not seen me since early in the morning because I had my own Dr.s Appointments. It left Barry real-ling for excuses. Later he was outside smoking and I heard her saying to Barry "Just be quiet. YOU are lying to me. Why don't you just stop it, and tell the truth for once?"
I hope she sees, I think she does, that Barry's "Friends" T***&B*** were lying for him too. See next post "Liar's Lair."
I still have to deal with her attacks on me, but I deal with it by just saying something like 'What, you just found out that Barry is a Liar and you are taking your frustrations out on me now?!" I get a couple of excuses and a few of my own raised words in and she finally sees what she is doing and calms down.
By the way, the Dr. All But Ordered Her to get him out of her house. He is afraid that he is going to hurt one of us. He even said, that because of some new state law he can't do anything about the guns. That he felt the way he does because of the things Barry tells him. I feel sorry for the Man. He want's to help, but his hands are tied till my Mother finally say's "Please help me." or "Please help my son." In conversations with Mom after a heated argument where Barry gets in between us saying something like "I don't want you to hurt her." I remind her by asking her, who hit you? Why didn't you do something about it then?" her only response is, "It was Barry and I don't know why I didn't do something then." I usually ask her, "so why don't you do something now?" I never get a response. But Now, I believe she's on the right track.
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