A Plea for Help

PLEASE, I BEG of YOU, PLEASE get him away from me before I do something to hurt myself or Him!

Please help my Mother to understand her eldest son is ILL!!

Victims and Targets

I don't know if I've said this before, but Sociopath's have both Victims and Targets. We all know about about Victims, but don't necessarily recognize the Targets.

There are two types of Targets; long term/permanent and short term/situational. The Long Term Targets are usually a sibling, cousin, or a former friend or bully, or someone they had trouble with when they were younger (20's down). The Target is the person they blame everything on, who many times the Spath thinks is out to get them. This Target is usually the first one that let's the Spath know they have their number and someone they feel threatened by because of their very existance. That is why it's usually a family member. Once the Spath gains their first Target - the Permanent one - all other targets acquired are situational. That is, something horrific has happened in the Spath's life; like someone figured them out and got the Spath's Victim to open their eyes, or worked behind the scenes to unravel their lies. This new Temp-Target becomes the brunt of all that is wrong with the Spath's life. The Spath will even ask their Permanent Target for assistance in destroying this new Temp-Target. Hey, Family is Family. Yet sooner or later the Permanent Target get's their head chopped off. And the way the Spath works those around them, It's a Damned if You Do and Damned If You Don't situation for the Permanent Target.

So a Word of Wisdom for Permanent Targets....You are Permanently Damned if you Do, and only Temporarily Damned if you Don't. However, since you are their Permanent Target, you're still damned. But I'd rather shoot myself in the foot than have my head chopped off. So DON'T!!!

Liars Lair

This is a continuation of the previous post "Cancer - the Great Elaborate Hoax"

Barry was told to stay away from T***&B*** a long time ago, and even experienced his own difficulties with them and didn't talk to them for several years. But he fell back in with them. B*** even came to our house and admitted saying things to Barry and waiting for them to come back to them from Barry and how they changed.

Barry got them to Bald Face Lie to my Mother for him about me. Why she would even believe them, just based on the BAD things Barry said about them, and what she knows, I have no idea. They have restraining orders on them from other neighbors because they were giving their kids drugs. Another neighbor indicated that B*** stole prescription meds from her. yet Mom choose to believe them.

Well I fixed that up. The one lie came with a date and time. Perfect. I went to a lawyer friend and got all the proof I needed that they were lying. My lawyer friend met with a Judge and a Cease and Desist order was sent to them indicating that my innocence of their false allegations was proven beyond a shadow of a doubt. If they continued, they would be tried and convicted. They weren't ready for that. Haven't heard a word from them since. Now they are still liars, they haven't learned their lesson, but I haven't heard a word about me.

What is it about Sociopaths? They can't live with each other, but for some damned reason they socialize together?

Barry's lies are unraveling, and so are T***&B***'s. Barry keeps saying that B***(different B) left a note that she would pay 1/2 all the bills. Well I can't post it yet, but the note does not say anything like that. T***&B*** say that they saw the note and it say's what Barry is claiming and more....I showed mom the Note.

I really wish she would stop believing EVERYTHING they say without verifying first. I often wonder if she is color blind because she can't see the Big Giant Frantically Waving RED Flags that keep pooping up around Barry.
Can you see where this is going. It's worse than the Soviets' Paranoia.

Cancer - The Great Elaborate Hoax

[UPDATE 4-9-12]
Well, it's been nearly 6 months since Barry';s cancer was debunked. Mom even found out through Doctors that he was lying. SHE STILL BELIEVES HIM!!!! In the face of even of the most damning evidence (or lack thereof), from Doctors, the lack of any records at a cancer treatment facility, Blood Tests showing absolutely no sign of ever having cancer  (or) treatment, AND the person that really had prostate cancer telling her the whole story (date for Date), a nurse (neighbor) telling her she was questioning Barry's story, AND, His own daughter providing 5 males that had the treatment he was supposed to have, and none of them have hair growing on their abdomens where the radiation was focused and Barry is furry there! It's one excuse after another.



[ORIGINAL]
Well, My Mother FINALLY started asking questions to the right people. I love it. Barry's elaborate Web of Lies is unraveling. Mom is finally starting to see it. One step at a time, but she's going to finally realize that Barry is a Liar Deluxe that lives in a Dream World.

OK, how did it happen you ask? Two Months ago Mom went to Dr. G*** who happens to be a wonderful Dr. That started seeing Barry for Free many many many moons ago. The Good Dr. was instrumental in getting Barry Disability and Medicare, but he admits he got sucked in to Barry's Web of Lies too, for a short time.
But I digress....Mom asked the Dr. about Barry's cancer and he looked dumbfounded and hurt at the same moment that Barry had not discussed it with him, after all he has done for him. The Dr. told Mom, I'll get to the bottom of this. At that visit he also said he had not seen Barry for several months when Mom ask the Dr. when he last saw Barry. [Barry had been supposedly seeing him weekly.] The Dr. got to see him finally and ordered some clandestine tests for Barry. They were to diagnose an issue he was having, but also to check, without the patient's knowledge, certain area's for having had cancer treatment or cancer.

I knew what the Dr. was testing for when Barry comes home and complains about the number of vials and bottles of blood they took from him. Somehow I successfully got him to go to the Dr. and get the Dr. and Mom to realize what was really going on.


Mom had to go to Dr. G*** today because she's sick from Barry coughing all over the place without covering his mouth. She got a bad case of laryngitis from it. While she was talking to him she asked about Barry's cancer. The Dr. just said, "I can find no sign that Barry has, now or in the past, had cancer. I also cannot find any records anywhere of him ever being treated for cancer. I have no idea why Barry would say anything like that." Mom went further asking him about all the other stuff (the "tattooed grid' on his side and the fine cut just below it, the reactions to radiation, etc).The Dr. explained everything to her including the length of treatment, which Barry was stating was lasting WAY LONGER than normal. In the end, Mom discovered it was an elaborate Hoax to get attention.

Then his other lies started to unravel.

Unfortunately when she got home, she started attacking Barry and I had to get her to the side and tell her that she was in Police mode now, gathering evidence. She should not divulge to the suspect what she knows. That she should never reveal to him what she knows, especially that the Cancer was a Hoax, until she enters Judge and Jury stage. She got the message. Thank God.

Then Barry started saying "You attack me like this every time I leave you alone with him." Mom told him, she had not seen me since early in the morning because I had my own Dr.s Appointments. It left Barry real-ling for excuses. Later he was outside smoking and I heard her saying to Barry "Just be quiet. YOU are lying to me. Why don't you just stop it, and tell the truth for once?"

I hope she sees, I think she does, that Barry's "Friends" T***&B*** were lying for him too. See next post "Liar's Lair."

I still have to deal with her attacks on me, but I deal with it by just saying something like 'What, you just found out that Barry is a Liar and you are taking your frustrations out on me now?!" I get a couple of excuses and a few of my own raised words in and she finally sees what she is doing and calms down.

By the way, the Dr. All But Ordered Her to get him out of her house. He is afraid that he is going to hurt one of us. He even said, that because of some new state law he can't do anything about the guns. That he felt the way he does because of the things Barry tells him. I feel sorry for the Man. He want's to help, but his hands are tied till my Mother finally say's "Please help me." or "Please help my son." In conversations with Mom after a heated argument where Barry gets in between us saying something like "I don't want you to hurt her." I remind her by asking her, who hit you? Why didn't you do something about it then?" her only response is, "It was Barry and I don't know why I didn't do something then." I usually ask her, "so why don't you do something now?"  I never get a response. But Now, I believe she's on the right track.

Barry and Casey Anthony

Well it's now over. The Jury " Believed" she is guilty as sin, but, also there was no direct evidence linking her to the death of her daughter. They only had one choice.

This is the problem with these wacko's. They are really Highly Intelligent. They know how to cover their tracks.

They know how to shift the Blame.

The defense also did not prove any of their opening allegations. I really do believe that if the Jury knew that her own defense had her tested (half way through the trial) to see if she was competent to stand trial, they would have found her Guilty.

This is the problem that anyone dealing with a Sociopath or Psychopath has to deal with. They are (1800's) Morally Insane!

I feel so Sorry for the entire Anthony Family. Casey has damaged them forever, and she couldn't care less.

Her Father's only Concern was for his Wife; Her only concern was for her Daughter. It's the same thing I see everyday. My Mother sees her son as a fuck up, but She cannot accept it, so she protects him.

Anyhow, My Mother was watching intently, and she saw Barry in Casey. All his Lies, all his transgressions.
She noticed the problems he has caused.

[Insert 11/23/2011]
But she has not accepted it. Oi. I think if Barry killed someone, and Mom witnessed it,  she would still protect him just like Casey's Mother.

Attn: Joe B - Don't say I didn't tell you so,,,

This was all overheard....Barry has started attacking you and your money. He doesn't know where you get your money from. He said he thinks it might be [Not Divulged for your protection], Because you said about connections and what you were able to get from [Not Divulged].

Be prepared; he's just getting started. Oh and I would warn M* (Family member). Barry has stated that he believes that M* has all his money because he's a [Not Divulged] for the [Not Divulged], simply because of his size and build, and that he goes back to [Not Divulged] quite often.

This was overheard when Barry was talking to his Mother. He also said he discussed it with T*&B* and they think you are involved with [Not Divulged].

You can't say I didn't warn you. Sooner or later ANYTHING you Say or Do for him will come back to haunt you once he is finished using you - i.e. you finally figure him out and stop giving him what he wants.

No need to apologize to me for the transgressions you have made upon me for him. He's a convincing Brain Washer.

Barry has a big mouth. Barry Makes up stories. He states the facts and then fills in the blanks with crap, thus altering the truth. i.e. He doesn't know why you went to Miami on vacation, so he he spins a tale based on bits and pieces that he knows about you or that you may even have said in jest.

Barry is Ill! Period! the only way to not be damaged by him is to have no contact with him. Sorry. That's the way it is.

You were (forgive me) Fucked the moment you became his friend.

Barry's moving in. Or. Why did you open the door?

Mom seems to realize her mistakes. Yet she does not seem to accept them, or at the very least she is not connecting the dots. She say's she knows what he does and how he twists things and how anything you say or do for him will come back to haunt you. She also knows how he will "suggest something," and then later come back and say that you said it. She also knows to think before she speaks because Barry always has a "hidden" agenda, which, by the way, isn't that hidden. One only needs to pay attention....
I really do not understand her defense of him to me.

Several months ago Barry started wanting to stay at Mon's, his complaint was that he just couldn't stay there, in his house alone. Mom let him stay at her house. Many times by himself for days at a time while we were both away.
Then things started happening. I am seriously surprised that mom hasn't made a connection. They are the same things that were happening when he last stayed with her 15 years ago, and the same things that were happening when he was a teenager...

He has her Cooking for him, Doing his Laundry, Picking up after him, etc. He comes and goes as he pleases. She Bitch's about him, yet she supports him. She wants me to be the bad guy. She keeps trying to make me do the things she is doing for him...I emphatically refuse. He's big boy now. He can stand on his own two feet. He has not been adjudicated a Retard, Developmentally disabled, an Idiot, etc.So Please STOP treating him like he has been! It's what he wants. He want's your sympathy. He is a Pussy!

Sorry, that came out of me. Yet

I'm Keeping him from getting a Job????!!!!

Barry's latest is that he has been trying to get security jobs and he never gets them because I'm emailing the companies advising them to not hire him. He say's he has proof, I said produce it. That was two weeks ago, and he can't produce it.

Although I won't do it, I'm thinking that is why he's trying to get access to my machines so he can have someone send one from my machine.