Mom seems to realize her mistakes. Yet she does not seem to accept them, or at the very least she is not connecting the dots. She say's she knows what he does and how he twists things and how anything you say or do for him will come back to haunt you. She also knows how he will "suggest something," and then later come back and say that you said it. She also knows to think before she speaks because Barry always has a "hidden" agenda, which, by the way, isn't that hidden. One only needs to pay attention....
I really do not understand her defense of him to me.
Several months ago Barry started wanting to stay at Mon's, his complaint was that he just couldn't stay there, in his house alone. Mom let him stay at her house. Many times by himself for days at a time while we were both away.
Then things started happening. I am seriously surprised that mom hasn't made a connection. They are the same things that were happening when he last stayed with her 15 years ago, and the same things that were happening when he was a teenager...
He has her Cooking for him, Doing his Laundry, Picking up after him, etc. He comes and goes as he pleases. She Bitch's about him, yet she supports him. She wants me to be the bad guy. She keeps trying to make me do the things she is doing for him...I emphatically refuse. He's big boy now. He can stand on his own two feet. He has not been adjudicated a Retard, Developmentally disabled, an Idiot, etc.So Please STOP treating him like he has been! It's what he wants. He want's your sympathy. He is a Pussy!
Sorry, that came out of me. Yet
This is a personal Blog about a Sociopathic Brother and how he is tearing a Family apart, and the horrible, unconscionable, things he does. Maybe reading it will help someone else understand they are not ill and the only thing they can do is endure the pain and leave. The only cure for a Sociopath is for the Victims to have NO CONTACT! So the cure is really for the Victims.
Friday, June 24, 2011
Thursday, June 23, 2011
I'm Keeping him from getting a Job????!!!!
Barry's latest is that he has been trying to get security jobs and he never gets them because I'm emailing the companies advising them to not hire him. He say's he has proof, I said produce it. That was two weeks ago, and he can't produce it.
Although I won't do it, I'm thinking that is why he's trying to get access to my machines so he can have someone send one from my machine.
Although I won't do it, I'm thinking that is why he's trying to get access to my machines so he can have someone send one from my machine.
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