PLEASE, I BEG of YOU, PLEASE get him away from me before I do something to hurt myself or Him!
Please help my Mother to understand her eldest son is ILL!!
Please help my Mother to understand her eldest son is ILL!!
This is a personal Blog about a Sociopathic Brother and how he is tearing a Family apart, and the horrible, unconscionable, things he does. Maybe reading it will help someone else understand they are not ill and the only thing they can do is endure the pain and leave. The only cure for a Sociopath is for the Victims to have NO CONTACT! So the cure is really for the Victims.
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Victims and Targets
I don't know if I've said this before, but Sociopath's have both Victims and Targets. We all know about about Victims, but don't necessarily recognize the Targets.
There are two types of Targets; long term/permanent and short term/situational. The Long Term Targets are usually a sibling, cousin, or a former friend or bully, or someone they had trouble with when they were younger (20's down). The Target is the person they blame everything on, who many times the Spath thinks is out to get them. This Target is usually the first one that let's the Spath know they have their number and someone they feel threatened by because of their very existance. That is why it's usually a family member. Once the Spath gains their first Target - the Permanent one - all other targets acquired are situational. That is, something horrific has happened in the Spath's life; like someone figured them out and got the Spath's Victim to open their eyes, or worked behind the scenes to unravel their lies. This new Temp-Target becomes the brunt of all that is wrong with the Spath's life. The Spath will even ask their Permanent Target for assistance in destroying this new Temp-Target. Hey, Family is Family. Yet sooner or later the Permanent Target get's their head chopped off. And the way the Spath works those around them, It's a Damned if You Do and Damned If You Don't situation for the Permanent Target.
So a Word of Wisdom for Permanent Targets....You are Permanently Damned if you Do, and only Temporarily Damned if you Don't. However, since you are their Permanent Target, you're still damned. But I'd rather shoot myself in the foot than have my head chopped off. So DON'T!!!
There are two types of Targets; long term/permanent and short term/situational. The Long Term Targets are usually a sibling, cousin, or a former friend or bully, or someone they had trouble with when they were younger (20's down). The Target is the person they blame everything on, who many times the Spath thinks is out to get them. This Target is usually the first one that let's the Spath know they have their number and someone they feel threatened by because of their very existance. That is why it's usually a family member. Once the Spath gains their first Target - the Permanent one - all other targets acquired are situational. That is, something horrific has happened in the Spath's life; like someone figured them out and got the Spath's Victim to open their eyes, or worked behind the scenes to unravel their lies. This new Temp-Target becomes the brunt of all that is wrong with the Spath's life. The Spath will even ask their Permanent Target for assistance in destroying this new Temp-Target. Hey, Family is Family. Yet sooner or later the Permanent Target get's their head chopped off. And the way the Spath works those around them, It's a Damned if You Do and Damned If You Don't situation for the Permanent Target.
So a Word of Wisdom for Permanent Targets....You are Permanently Damned if you Do, and only Temporarily Damned if you Don't. However, since you are their Permanent Target, you're still damned. But I'd rather shoot myself in the foot than have my head chopped off. So DON'T!!!
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